Let’s look at both sides of the coin: there are people who live in their past glories. They think that their current lives is not wonderful that was years ago when I was young, was handsome, was a daring, had a high position, his girlfriend was a beautiful girl, etc… always they spend recalling those days as the best.

Or other people that despite the fact that his life is tranquil and happy, always be they spend recalling a bad love, a failure that made him shake, a disappointment from a loved one, etc and not forgotten. Other people might even envy his life, but he is limited to remove it as a theme always.

None of the two situations are better that another in my opinion. Both are still anchored to a past that was, they have refused to move. Wrong to you, your mind is still positioned at a time that has passed? Do not you leave because it was too beautiful or because you can not overcome this pain?

The problem of this situation, is that we were without forward. And remember that is not moving forward, tends to fall back, which is exactly what we do. And if you take it to another point of view, everything that grows it tends to die. And in this case, what dies is your way to victory, because you can not continue.

I know that there are times that marked us forever, something that day will live in us the rest of our lives. But we are still alive, you touch the chest, your heart still throbbing (anda hazlo…… well). You’re still alive, your time on Earth is not the end, which is why news stories are written.

-Take the most important memories you have in your life, and go one afternoon at a single Park. Don’t carry your family is your own. Think deeply about it, live it, laughs if necessary or cries if it is the case. Remember is live, but keep in mind that it will be the last time that live you in that family. Goodbye to so many places, people and situations.

-Returning to your home, think that already said you goodbye to these days. Do it in a mirror, and repeats with force out loud that already happened, you are going to move forward, your best victories lie ahead. That not you penalty will hear, saying things aloud hits directly your subconscious.

After that plan to your new life: can be initiated a project, find new friends, a change of appearance, what comes to mind. Something so simple could be the difference, not you confussed. The failures and successes of yesterday already died, you’re still alive.

A man strongly struck a rock, with a hard face, sweating. Someone asked:

-What is your work? And he replied with grief:
-Does not see it? Chop stone.

A second man heavily struck another rock, with hard face, sweating. Someone asked:

-What is your work? And he replied with grief:
-Does not see it? Carving a stepping stone.

A third man beat strongly a rock, jerk, with cheerful, relaxed face. Someone asked:

-What is your work? “.” And he told excited:
-I am building a cathedral.

Always remember what the greatest purpose why you’re doing things. So you serve what you are doing now, that way helps build your desires.  If you can not make sense to what you do can be an indicator that there is something that needs to be changed. Ask yourself every day if that build today takes you to the place where you want to be tomorrow.

Overcoming personal and motivation, not you should separate them ever in my opinion. In fact it is good to have one or the other, but having them both will make you a person with good chance of success in everything you do. I will explain how one is gasoline and the other is the vehicle to reach your goal.

When I think about overcoming personal and motivation, I think that the first is the vehicle. There is the idea of moving forward, to improve, as well as techniques for reaching that point. In fact many people study for years the themes of personal growth without result.

Then, self-improvement no does it? Clear that Yes!, but I’ve noticed that many times they fail because lack them motivation. It is necessary to not only know how, but also why doing things. This is because changing behaviors we have rooted is difficult.

Why I say that the personal overcoming and motivation must always go together. Because once you have already found a way to get to the top, you will need to continually be you pushing yourself to move forward. Then, how do I find appropriate such petrol and vehicle?

Self-improvement courses serve so that people can find a methodology to follow. The creators of these courses have gone through experiences that will serve them to other persons to shorten the way and have similar results. But that’s just part of this winning equation.

I constantly see people who prepares and fails. This is because it leaves everything to the technique and set aside their motivation. Many times they are depressed, frustrated and defeated, then seek a technique to move forward. But by most good as it is, won’t end if it does not really.

I.e., it will begin to study, it will read two three sentences of power, will have more información…pero if can’t find that on internal fire, nothing will serve. The personal overcoming and motivation that you should find is a simple approach:

1 What does want to achieve, to where you want to reach? If you don’t know where to go, anywhere gives the same. It raises very well your goals in the short, medium and long term. Then, search for knowledge about what they must learn to get to that site. If you can do you much better written.

2. Why you want achieve this? If you only answer the first you’re lost. Do you want to be happier by helping your family, to live more comfortable? Everyone has different reasons, but while you do not find yours anything it will help.
Ignore one of the two will be hopelessly your attempts to just be in eso…simples attempts.

What I learned: to change the way of being, is not mas what to change ways of thinking, leaving one way think it doesn’t work and replace it with another belief or other “form of pensar” that works better.”

Why does the way of thinking both matter? Because the way one thinks and acts, because the way we see determines our behavior and influencing our results.

Do this exercise: try to see yourself differently from the way as you act conventionally, as someone else, like what you’ve always wanted to be but you dare not or did not dare to be so for anything. At the beginning you may be contradictory but try again as if you already really Rome. Do you have given notice that one acts as it acts on the way to think of himself?  as it is thus thought we act. But no one told us that we are condemned to be the case forever, we can change! We can improve! Why not try see you differently, start to think differently and act at any moment in a way that you had not imagined that they could?

Remember: Winners are acting as if they are already winners even before him. Your’re a winner, your can do it! Each time that you generate become someone better.

Those who know more patience are in fact persons engaged in cultivating plants: they will start seeing his work as a small seed. Her will on Earth and they will be watering her every day. Initially they will not see any results, but you know that over time the plant will emerge.

They are patient, but above all have faith in the outcome. They know that they are not losing the time, dedicating part of his life every day. Because that are sure in the end they will have the fruits of his success, which will come in the form of plant, flower or fruit. Here is a lesson that you should take.

I say that patience is virtue of entrepreneurs, because their business will not be instantaneous. But if work you every day with the certainty that will bear fruit at some point, sooner or later they will have results. But can only endure if they have faith in what you are doing, but not see yet these fruits.

Many of the people who visit this blog, want to form their own small businesses. But they do not find the confidence to do so, they feel that they must overcome personally and develop to begin. But there’s a few more missing ingredient of patience to finally see the fruits.

They begin a project feel sure of themselves, have been prepared and begin to work; but they spend the weeks and months, and see that your business does not move at all. Here is where filter people: there will be some close, while others will even have a part-time job to continue.

In this scenario I ask you the following: If you are thinking of undertaking, completely studied all possible scenarios. Also gets how many resources you’ll need, removed your goals and put date. It works in planning until no doubt possible that your venture is good.

And after that, it works with patience until you see results. It might take a long time and also that you have to sacrifice moments of rest to follow, but if you’ve made a decision not give back. Because if you do, you’ll be relaxing into your brain, getting used to that there is the option of withdrawal.

Here you could begin a debate on which it should not be so stubborn, but many obstinate achieved their goals. I’ll leave task. Begins and stay, because remember that patience is a virtue of entrepreneurs.

For example, think of Twitter. Insurance you have heard of him, but this is the case, is a system of micro-blogging, where a person can put his thoughts in 140 characters. It is fairly simple to use and understand, which is why thousands of people around the world use it.

When you find an interesting person, you have the option to follow it. Then, is why someone continue to another? It is because it excels in something: can be an artist, a singer, etc.or also a very funny person or that of good ideas. Nobody is going to be a loser, but someone outstanding.

As you see, so your ideas to influence others have to be someone with a voice in your field. And that it’ll only achieve if you bring things of value to humanity. Let’s look at this issue, which is of interest to all those who want to be heard and to influence others positively.

As well as in the case of Twitter, people tend to follow someone. Not as marked as in this page, but we are aware of news of people or hear it everytime he opens his mouth. We do this because you can admire, appreciate and we are going to get something good to care.

If you want to influence, you enhance your skills. First, you must think in what you want to Excel in your work, your family, in your circle of friends? The real secret is be pro active. People love to follow, because they remove the work of having to be deciding, someone else does.

No matter that your decisions are not perfect, make decisions and communicate them. You will be surprised to see how many people will be willing to follow you in order to avoid having to think for themselves. But of course, you should always do it thinking about the good of others, people ends up becoming aware of your intentions.

You must also practice speaking in public, that may be a good idea. Remember that in a communication only 7% of it’s content, all the rest is body language and the way in which we say things. If you want to be a leader, you can not forget this aspect, the communication will be your main weapon.

Remember that nobody is going to follow a loser, then you will need to make you a winner in what you have to make. But remembering Stan Lee and Spider-man, a great power involves a great responsibility. If you are going to be a winner with fans, taking into account that they have placed their trust in you, not those disappointments.

I think the children who ever said that astronauts would be. His mother, being realistic, had told him to stop thinking about things vague, to be better put to study something useful as being a doctor or lawyer. Then, imagine that this child had ignored advice.

Never would have grown to become one of the few humans who can leave the planet. And it is not that it is bad to be doctor or lawyer, but it was not the dream of the child. But forcing it to be realistic, he was forced to forget about all those ideas of grandeur that could lead it to a great life.

It is normal that this will not happen, most of the time with good intentions: the people makes you set foot on Earth, to avoid that you suffer a disappointment. But at the same time be realistic you could move from the triumph that you’d be living the life that others want to and not that I was pointing out your passion.

Always has been known that difficult things take time and much work. And at the same time the risk of failure grows enormously, so most people avoid these roads. You prefer to try another type of activities much more secure and predictable results, to avoid surprises.

But it also gives as a result that is not living what he really wants, you are doing what they dreamed of child? It is likely that not, it is possible that someone has told you to forget to be dreaming, that life is very difficult to be wasting time in the clouds. And that landed you.

But think about those great singers, actors, sportsmen, who travel around the world and that are known to all. They are doing what they like and are passionate about, if small had said that they wanted to be super stars, had labeled them dreamers. But today they live the dream.

So please:

1.-Te I would ask that you stop being realistic and put you look very above. What project you want to do? It may be working, or something you want to build, no matter how difficult.

2.-Then I ask you to give the first step to achieve this: either information, buy a book, meet with an expert, etc.

3 You think that if something you are passionate about, that same passion will be the fuel that makes you go always forward.

These three steps to nothing are specific, but you must admit that it all starts with follow your dream and start. One day I had a dream to work online from home, do it now. And all because I decided to follow my path, so I also invite you to think to be realistic you could move from the triumph.

I often meet people and my had also happened to me, in allowing others to determine how you will behave with them on the basis of the way they behave as you but I discovered that it need not always be so.

Previously the philosophy of thinking “You try as you treat me” However when your lifestyle is a continuous learning, you give notice that there are other ways, other paths that will lead to better things.

In this life, you will find situations you have to deal with difficult to treat, people with who have had some misunderstanding or have not understood for any reason and things were not always well. The question is, which happens next with these people? people who maybe never taught to deal with other people?

The way low, harms relations and away to the rest of us. The middle way may not keep away from people, but not attract them to us. People merely to react and does not take initiatives because it allows others to dictate the pattern of social conduct to be followed. On the other hand the high road helps us create positive relationships and attracts people towards us. It establishes a pattern of conduct positive that others may take, in such a way that even negative people is difficult to menoscabarlo…

“The high road is often not the easiest, but is the only one that leads to level higher life.”

Finally, you will share a personal experience, which without giving me account had been applying this principle, and now that I know that although it is difficult but I apply it in a more conscious way: once, I joined a meeting where there were many people, and that’s why I did not realize the presence of a person, which had suffered because I not greeted. This person began to react badly in subsequent interactions, thinking or assuming that I had something against her, when in fact nothing to do. Despite this attitude, I decided to show him everything opposite, a different attitude and continue to believe that that person had a good thing after all. One day while we are, used with a friend in common, and this lady came with his son, as he was so uneasy I decided to take it easy, treat him very nicely to the child and avoid that it fell by the way. This was natural because it bore no grudge; the change he gave this person with me was impressive, not only told me some positive things about me, but that wherever I found me greets very cortez graciously and with a smile from ear ear. This is the type of change that can occur in people when we understand his faults and despite everything them continue seeking better than we could treat.

When we are born, we are all zero. Nobody is born a loser or a winner, we come to the world with the same capacity. I must confess that we are born with variations in personality, you’ll see babies that they they spend crying, while others will be sleeping peacefully.

But then they have the same chance to develop. Everything will depend on the education you have, and I do not mean the school necessarily. No, I am referring to the level of ideas their parents and teachers put you in the brain. And also, of course, of the self-education which this person get.

Because affluent persons are because they think different. They see opportunities where others only see scarcity. And they are also ready to re – invent more than once to be able to continue that prosperity. Let’s look at some data and you will teach how to obtain a prosperous mind.

With the example of children, many might think that if you’re an adult as it is late. That you had training from an early age and that now her you cannot change. False! People always can change and get a prosperous mind. And only requires two steps: education and action, no more than that.

Wealthier people are because they take advantage of opportunities that others do not see, has happened that you did some business out of an absurd idea? Even thought that you could do something así…pero unfortunately, another came first. As well, that person saw it and you do not.

This is because educates himself in areas such as finance, personal growth, self esteem, etc…para to be a full and balanced person. What you used to be a genius in finance, if you have it self-esteem low? Do or more motivated person in the world, but you have no idea of how to do things?

And making this clear, I mention that the second step is the action. It is no use all the knowledge and passion if nothing is done. Believe me that every day there are people who have great ideas, but stay in the dark by not taking action. It could be a million dollar idea and did nothing.

Then, the first thing is to educate you to expand your horizons. And then you “applicator” constant. No matter that things go not perfect, but make them, so you’ll have experience. This is the way to thrive, there is no magic. Read this article again and reflects on the application of these data in your search for how to obtain a prosperous mind.